There’s just one thing i asked for…

Sometimes expecting anyone to behave in a certain manner no matter how many times you have told them to do so is a bit too much and apparently it doesn’t go down nicely.

So there you are and you have told a certain somebody that you don’t like a certain aspect of how that certain somebody lives their life and that certain somebody agrees to the fact. In the future the conditions that lead up to the action you don’t like are avoided but inevitably there comes a moment when the action which you hate and have already expressed a hatred for is repeated.

You confront the person saying you don’t like this and it should have been done differently and they shoot back at you saying that this time the affected person is not you (did I forget to mention that you developed a hatred because you were subjected to that action many a times and that made you realize it’s not you who was the only affected but this was a general attitude problem). You say that it’s not being subjected to the action you hated; it’s the action itself that make you want to puke. Sure the action is sometimes unavoidable; sometimes situation get out of hand and there is nothing you can do to help it. In those times you would think you are obliged to inform the person affected that the action has to be taken and you are sorry. But you know better, you have been the target of the action many a times without any information that’s its going down.

When you confront the person about the hatred, this stops happening and you feel good. But you overlook the reason of it not happening; the steps leading up to the action are now being avoided. It’s like avoiding internet to protect you from spyware and viruses rather than keep a vigil and avoid malicious sites. Sometime later when everything is fine and dandy out of the blue you see the action being carried out without a slightest second thought. You ask why and the answer you get stuns you. “It’s not you who is going to be affected by this, so please stop asking about the justification of the action” WTF. You try explaining you never hated being the affected person rather you hated the action itself. No effect! You try asking for an explanation and all you get is silence and silence. Instead of an answer or reason you get blamed back that you have never curbed some of your actions that were objected against. You know you have curbed them but… never mind.

And sometimes silence is not enough.